Looking for an ideal Love...

This post has been written from a guy's perspective...it is not politically correct...i am not here to write a piece that justifies both sexes... if u r lookin for that dont read further....

"Looking for an impractical, hopelessly romantic n idiotic gal.... anyone out there knows someone whoz like this??"

No No I am not joking...actually now that i am free for sometime i read a lot of stupid novels, watch movies...they all seem so surreal.. u know that amazing ideal love story...the gal believes the guy can do anything..he's her hero...she all committed to him and all...the guy also loves the gal truly. he would do anything for her...wait for her till eternity...

I know in this net age it is absolutely foolhardy to think about a gal whoz 'urs truly', who only talks to u...waits for u... but then again.. 'dil to bachcha hai ji :-)' (for those uninitiated in Hindi..it means that the heart is a kid..) it demands or expects things that are not possible.

You know just imagining things like holding your love's hand or hugging her when she is sad or in pain and her pain and sadness subsides feels so good.. one person is ready to endure any amount of hardship and pain for the other.. i believe that kind of love is what I am looking for..it isn't entirely my imagination working over time...i have seen such love..between my parents and lot of other couples for that sake. there are even married couples that do not share this kind of rapport even after 25 years of married life..whereas there are people who get this feeling within a day of meeting their love. People who get such kind of partner are the luckiest for their love is the true(st) of all and with no selfishness. i guess this is called self less love...

I might never find someone like this or i just might find someone like this tomorrow.. i dont know.. u often tend to find things like love where you least expect them..

Shiv

An article by Chetan Bhagat....

its all very common..he hasn't written anything new or radical but still if we properly read it...this all is so true...

Chalo ek baar phirse....

i heard a song from the movie Gumraah...it featured Sunil Dutt Saab

chalo ek baar phir se ajnabii ban jaayeN ham donoN

na maiN tum se ko’ii ummiid rakhuuN dil navaazii kii
na tum merii taraf dekho Ghalat andaaz nazroN se
na mere dil kii dhaRkan laRkhaRaaye merii baatoN meN
na zaahir ho tumhaarii kash-ma-kash kaa raaz nazroN se

chalo ek baar phir se ajnabii ban jaayeN ham donoN

tumheN bhii ko’ii uljhan roktii hai pesh-kadmii se
mujhe bhii log kahte haiN ke ye jalve paraaye haiN
mere ham-raah bhii rusavaaiyaaN haiN mere maazii kii
tumhaare saath bhii guzrii hu’ii raatoN ke saaye haiN

ta’arruf rog ho jaaye to us ko bhuulnaa behtar
ta’alluq bojh ban jaaye to us ko toRnaa achchaa
vo afsaanaa jise ajnaam tak laanaa na ho mumkin
use ek Khuubsuurat moR dekar chhoRnaa achchaa

chalo ek baar phir se ajnabii ban jaayeN ham donoN

And a translation by Falstaff(taken from his page on the blog),

Come, let us be strangers again, you and I.

I shall no longer hope for any favours from you
Nor shall you look upon me with eyes askance.
And my words shall tremble no more with my heartbeat
Nor the secret of your struggle be betrayed in a glance.

Come, let us be strangers again, you and I.

You too have hesitated to give yourself completely
I too wear disguises, or so I am told
The disgraces of my past are my constant companions
And you too are possessed by the nights of old.

When involvement becomes illness it is best forgotten
When a relationship oppresses it is best to break it
When the adventure you are embarked on cannot be completed
One must find a beautiful way out, and take it.

Come, let us be strangers again, you and I.

Some years back, I had someone explain to me – the art of making a good presentation. Tell the audience what you are going to talk about. State your theory (- let us become strangers again) – and what that would mean. Then, explain the setting(, the memories and emotions you both carry with you). Finally explain your solution (- let us become strangers again). And all that in just 3 slides :)

What a simple solution to so many troubles life throws at you! Take a beautiful way out :) As they say, the simplest and the most elegant solutions are the ones that are hardest to arrive at.

Lovely poem, lovely theme.

Taqdeer

Taqdeer kya likhu muqadar ke saamne

qatil ne qatal kar diya mere ghar ke samne

sari basti jalti rehti to afsos na hota

tanha mera ghar jala samandar ke samne...........................

SHE......

SHE....
to the girl whom i Love the most...
i hope it never ends

She
May be the face I can't forget
The trace of pleasure or regret
May be my treasure or the price I have to pay
She
May be the song that summer sings
May be the chill that autumn brings
May be a hundred different things
Within the measure of a day

She
May be the beauty or the beast
May be the famine or the feast
May turn each day into a heaven or a hell
She may be the mirror of my dreams
The smile reflected in a stream
She may not be what she may seem
Inside her shell

She
Who always seems so happy in a crowd
Whose eyes can be so private and so proud
No one's allowed to see them when they cry
She
May be the love that cannot hope to last
May come to me from shadows of the past
That I'll remember till the day I die

She
May be the reason I survive
The why and wherefore I'm alive
The one I'll care for through the rough in ready years
Me
I'll take her laughter and her tears
And make them all my souvenirs
For where she goes I've got to be
The meaning of my life is

She
She, oh she

girls...can anyone explain them to me??

she tells me that her exams are going on...
she tells me that her mom is unwell and she has lot of work to do..
she is so busy that she is not even able to get time to study..
she got her internet disconnected 5 months ago so she could study properly without getting distracted frm her books due to the net...
then why do i find her online on facebook everyday from her mobile...making status updates..commenting on other's status n pics....replying to comments from others...
but she still wont check her mailbox..
This gal is mad



why do gals hav to blurt out everything to their one best friend who in turn tells it to some other person n before you know the entire town knows about it..cant they keep anything to themselves..something that their boyfriend had trusted them with?

gals r a species that i will never b able to fathom..i thought i knew all about them..but everyday a new suprise is thrown towards me...oh god save me.. :-)

Inna Ankhiyan Ch Paavan Kive Kajla Ve

This a song that has touched my heart. Sung by the Koel of Punjab- Surinder Kaur, it is song about love and its magic. Its in punjabi and not very easy to understand. I found many people searching for it meaning...so here it is. It is not perfectly correct so if you find out any error do comment me and i will correct it.
This song was also in the movie- Oye Lucky Lucky Oye, Starring Abhay Deol.
Before you wreck your brains searching for it, let me tell you...it is in background music when he is coming with the actress from Shimla....
This song is dedicated to the girl who changed my life.. Whose love made it so beautiful..





Inna Akhiyan Ch Paavan Kive Kajla Ve

Inn Aankhon mein main kajal kaise lagau

Akhiyan Ch Tu Vasda

Inn aakhon mein to tu basta hai...

Har Vele Channa Mera Tere val Muh Ve

har pal mere pyaar mere saamne tera chehra rehta hai

Buliyan ch Naa Tera

Boliyon mein tera naam hai...

Akhiyan ch Tu Ve

Meri Aankhon mein tu hai...


Jadon Hasdi, Bhulekha menu Painda Ve

Jab main hansti hoon, to mujhe aisa dhokha hota hai, main aise bhram mein pad jaati hoon

Haseya Ch Tu Hasda

Ki in hansi mein bhi tu hi hansta hai..


Lamiyan si Vaatan Channa

Ye raste bahut lambe the mere Priye

Nere Nere Aaea Tu

Tu pass pass aaya..

Akhiyan De Raahi Aa Ke

Aankhon ke raste aakar


Dil Ch Samayeya Tu

Tu iss dil mein samaya..

Jadon Puchdi aa Piyar Diyan Gallan Ve

jab main pyaar bhari baatein puchti hoon to..

Hauli Hauli tu dasda

haule haule tu batata hai..

Inna Akhiyan Ch Paavan Kive Kajla Ve

Inn Aankhon mein main kajal kaise lagau

Akhiyan Ch Tu Vasda

Inn aakhon mein to tu basta hai...

Masa Masa Jindari Main Pyar vich Rangi Ve

Maine bahut mushkilon se zindagi pyaar se rangi hai

Aj Menu Jaapda Main tere Naal mangi Ve

Aaj mujhe pata chala hai main tere saath k liye bani hoon

Aj Khushiyan da Ho Gea Savera Ve

aaj khushiyon ki subah ho gayi hai

Gam Saathon Door Bhajda

ghum mujhse door jaa raha hai

Inna Akhiyan Ch Paavan Kive Kajla Ve…

Inn Aankhon mein main kajal kaise lagau